My sisters moving away from me :(

[pink_lucie]

My older sister moved house today, shes so far from me now i feel like im never gona see her again :(

AND to top it off helping her is making me want to move out even more which is making me really really sad. I cant afford to move out and my boyfriend would rather live with his mum than me which really really hurts!

Can you believe he actully said he wanted to drive before moving in with me?!!!! WTF?!!! He doesnt have money for lessons let alone a ****ing car!!!! Its more likely that i will leave home in the next 6months than him driving and he didnt believe me!!! He just doesnt care about me leaving home or moving in with me, he doesnt believe i can do it!!!!

[recoveringcutter]

Originally Posted by pink_lucie

My older sister moved house today, shes so far from me now i feel like im never gona see her again :(

AND to top it off helping her is making me want to move out even more which is making me really really sad. I cant afford to move out and my boyfriend would rather live with his mum than me which really really hurts!

Can you believe he actully said he wanted to drive before moving in with me?!!!! WTF?!!! He doesnt have money for lessons let alone a ****ing car!!!! Its more likely that i will leave home in the next 6months than him driving and he didnt believe me!!! He just doesnt care about me leaving home or moving in with me, he doesnt believe i can do it!!!!

are you and your sister really close? maybe you guys can stay connected through e-mail or myspace (if she has one) where is she moving to?

have you tried to talk to your boyfriend about how it makes you feel?

[Done-With-It!]

Originally Posted by pink_lucie

My older sister moved house today, shes so far from me now i feel like im never gona see her again :(

AND to top it off helping her is making me want to move out even more which is making me really really sad. I cant afford to move out and my boyfriend would rather live with his mum than me which really really hurts!

Can you believe he actully said he wanted to drive before moving in with me?!!!! WTF?!!! He doesnt have money for lessons let alone a ****ing car!!!! Its more likely that i will leave home in the next 6months than him driving and he didnt believe me!!! He just doesnt care about me leaving home or moving in with me, he doesnt believe i can do it!!!!

Ahh, I'm sorry sweetie... I know this is going to be really hard on you.
When does she leave?
I think maybe your boyfriend does care, they just think a lot different than girls do, and they express their emotions way different than us.
I'm sorry things have been so rough for you, wish there was more we could do for you..

[blackxmas09]

I'm sorry girl, I hope that things get better for you.

When I was younger, my sister did what I want to do myself when I get her age.
When she turned 18 she moved across the U.S. with her boyfriend, and they wanted to start over their lives. I was SOO devastated. I didn't know what to do with myself, because she was the only sister who had anything to do with me, so I was sad...of course.

Just try to stay in touch with her, there are many things you could do. And you could also go visit her, like over the summer. I did that, and it made me feel better.
Also, call her every night. That way you will have that security that she is there for you, and that you can always talk to her.
^_^

[pink_lucie]

she isnt moving far.....but i cant just walk to her house anymore :( the little things like seeing my niece and nephew alot etc

I did talk to my bf about moving out and he doesnt want me to move out so im not going to, to keep him happy :( but i want it so bloody much its gona be so hard not to talk about it or think about it.

And to make things worse ive been so horrible the past week and a half for god knows what reason :( stupid bloody hormones....im not usually like this :( its really upsetting him because im so rude and horrible and i hate it aswell.......im not due on my period for another week or so. Usually im like this on my period not befor :(

[blackxmas09]

Yeah, I know what you mean. It sucks when you have to give up those things that make you happy, and you think you can't live without. But I'm sure you and her will work something out where you can see each other, and other family members. =]

You do whatever makes you happy. You can't always live in other people's footsteps and do what they want, you have to go your own path in life, and do what makes you happy. ^_^ Remember that...

I'm sorry about that, maybe PMS? lol

I'm on my period right now, and it sucks! I'm very very very very irritable as well...

It's probobly because you've been going through a lot. People handle stress in different ways, some get irritable, and some get happy...