I met a boy...i need advice...

[GirlInterrupted]

So, I met this boy last night at a party. And he says he likes me and blah blah blah. And I think he is the most gorgeous person ever. But, I just got out of a relationship with an alcoholic who was somewhat abusive - at least that's what I have been told.


Plus, He is living with his gf. Who is a crazy natzi women, and tries to control him and all his friends. I was really drunk, so that could be the only reason i like him right now. haha....


But we are talking and stuff. And I am not sure what to do. I'd love to be friends and just flirt with him cause i don't think i'm ready to date, but he has a gf and even thinking he is hott makes me feel guilty.


What to do, what to do??

[Chy]

Until he is "available" I'd certainly keep my distance and just be friends.

[dont cry for me]

Originally Posted by GirlInterrupted

I just got out of a relationship with an alcoholic who was somewhat abusive - at least that's what I have been told.

what do you mean "thats what youve been told???"

and i think you shouldnt do anything until he ends his relationship with his girlfriend... no matter how crazy she is its not fair on her, and especially if your not sure if you really like him or not.

if hes not happy with her and wants to go out with you then hel dump her, but i think you should wait till then, especially if your feeling guilty already.

[GirlInterrupted]

Originally Posted by dont cry for me

what do you mean "thats what youve been told???"

Well, people who know what he has done have told me it's abuse. But i don't really think it was because it could have been a lot worse.

Originally Posted by dont cry for me

and i think you shouldnt do anything until he ends his relationship with his girlfriend... no matter how crazy she is its not fair on her, and especially if your not sure if you really like him or not.

Originally Posted by dont cry for me

if hes not happy with her and wants to go out with you then hel dump her, but i think you should wait till then, especially if your feeling guilty already.

Yeah, that's how i feel. I just really like him for some odd reason. But we are good at just being friends. She is soo mean to him though. Like she almost didn't let him some home last night just because he smoked a ciggerette and she suddenly decided she didn't like ciggs.

I deff like being friends with him for now. Cause i am not over my ex and he's fun to just flirt with and be nice to. And it's fun to hear all his compliments and stuff and then not have him exspect me to do anything in return because he is taken.

But in all honesty, i am NOT going to get my hopes up about him. I'm just ganna crush on him. Cause he is way too cute for me. And i mean seriously way too cute, and nice hahaha.