Advice Needed.

[NoOneCanHearYou]

Okay guys so here's the thing.

I don't like being in my house much anymore...I mean sometimes there's good days and others I just can't stand it. I am really tired of being sheltered in that house and not being able to experience life like I want to. I want to be able to go out and relax once in a while, but I can't because I'm never allowed.
And I have no idea what being out in the real world is like. My parents have sheltered me so much, that I have found myself to be completely dependant on them and that really isn't good.
And my dad doesn't want me there anymore.

So basically I have talked to my friends about it, and one of them offered to let me stay with them. I want to honestly...but I'm afraid that I won't be able to leave my house now because I'm scared they will get very angry. I'm afraid they'll cut off all contacts with me, and they won't let me see them again. I'm not even sure how to bring that up anymore. I really really want to leave, but I'm afraid they won't let me.
I just need to know how to handle this situation because right now part of me really wants to live with my friend and be happy, but another part of me thinks to just leave it be.

[Done-With-It!]

I wouldn't jump the gun if it were me. You have your whole life ahead of you to experience life sweetie. I'm sure you've heard if I knew then, what I know now, lol.
It's hard out here in the real world. Can you keep this option open? And if your dad tells you again he wants you gone, then think about this option?
Then give them something to think about?
Cause your right if you up and leave now, it will cause a lot of problems.
I think for now, while your in High School you should try and stay home and make sure you graduate. It would be easy to not go to school, easy to mess up if you weren't living at home.

Anyway, think about it somemore, before you make a decision. :-)

[Formaldehyde]

Okay. I can tell you what you don't want to do.
You don't want to jus take off some day. A couple months ago I got into a big fight withmy mum and I jus took off...and of course I didn't have any place to go and I ended up coming back to my house with my tail between my legs begging to be let back in.
Try to talk to them about it. They need to realize that it is time to let you go. I think you should get out there and see what life is like outside of your house.

[NoOneCanHearYou]

See that's the thing. I do want to go but I don't want to create a big mess with them. My friend already said that she would let me move in, but I'm afraid if I go then my parents will cut off all my education expenses and insurance and stuff. I don't want that.


My dad does want me gone, I know it, but he doesn't know where to take me. =/

[Done-With-It!]

I would wait for him to say it and tell you, before you go and do it.

That's just me, that's what I would do.

[denny]

be careful how u do this, its hard to live in the "rael world" can u afford the bills eg elctric, fone, water food ect.. coz u cant expect ur frends to pay for u to live forever they mayb happy to help u out for awile but bills r sumthing u need to think abuot, i wud also spaek to ur frend and ask what she expects u to pay for in the long term. how well do u get on wiv ur frend coz living wiv sum1 is different and can cuorse arguments, living wiv sum1 requires a lot of give and take, respect for each others personal space and tideing up after urself, cooking for urself, doing washing (i had to do this at my parants home anyway) but sum poeple dont hav to and they get one hell of a shock wen they move out and hav to look after themself.
wiv ur parants i agree wiv D-W-I but if u cant wiate for ur parants to bring it up then b careful how u tell them dont tell them striaght after an argument, sit down wiv them and talk it all out wiv them, tell them u dont want to lose tuoch wiv them.
this is just sum of the things i thort u might want to think abuot b4 u move out.
i hope things work out the way u want them to
hugs denny

[flynn]

I'm confused.. You want to experience life outside home but you really don't want to? You want to experience life and when your father seems to approve of it, you then decide you don't want to anyway?