3 days? looooong time

[pink_lucie]

ok so i havent been in a while....my comp crashed and took all my passwords away and i couldnt be botherd to find the one for this site...lol took me 3 days to re set it


anyway on thurday night my mum was drunk and fell down the stairs, she couldnt move, she was in pain but my dad said dont call an ambulance shes drunk and will sleep it off. well she didnt, i spent most of the night getting thing for her like water etc. she was left sleeping on the floor of our hallway.

friday morning my dad and sister tried to move her but she was in ALOT of pain so i was like **** this im calling an ambulace....i annoyingly had to go to college (or i'll be chucked out) so i didnt see them come.

in college i got a call from my sister saying she has broken her pelvis in two places!!!!!!!!!!!!! i went and saw her but it was horrible she was shaking loads and had oxygen on etc...i couldnt stay it was too much.

so me my dad and sister saw her tonight, she cant walk, can only use her left side, and has something wrong with her shoulder. she had such a bad bloody attitude i will not be seeing her again, she could of atleast be gratefull we came. she will probably be in hospital for a week or two...maybe depdning on things till christmas....then we have to get a carer for her as my sister and dad has work and ive got college so theres no one to look after her.

anyway yeah....hi

[Kellie]

GG!
Hi Honey... sorry to hear about your mum... I wonder if she is starting to realize that she might have a drinking problem? I sure hope so.
Your situation is a clear example how the alcoholic not only affect themselves, but everyone around them.
I am sorry she was hurt so badly, but am praying it will be a wake up call for her to get her act together.
You focus on your school (I meant it!) your mum created this ugly mess she is in and you and your sis, and dad need to let her work in out for herself.
Do your very best to stay out of your head over this latest alcoholic mess and stay in the moment with your education and just being in the day. You should be enjoying your college years.
Well do not be stranger, stay close....
Hugs,
Kellie

[Dreamz]

Originally Posted by gossip_girl

she had such a bad bloody attitude i will not be seeing her again, she could of atleast be gratefull we came. she will probably be in hospital for a week or two...maybe depdning on things till christmas....then we have to get a carer for her as my sister and dad has work and ive got college so theres no one to look after her.

Hey GG. Tough time huh? I'm sorry, hope things start looking up for you. You have alot of strength to be getting through this as you are so proud of you!!!

Hospitals suck, and I say this having spent so much time in hospitals. I used to sit there or lie there and wish there was someone, anyone with me, then when my family would visit, I'd be miserable that they could go home and I had to stay so I would take it out on them.

So not trying to take your mums side, Just trying to let you know not to take it too personally (which I know is totally easy for me to say) but your mum probably doesn't mean to be ungrateful, and I bet she is thankful for you guys coming to see her, even if she doesn't show it!

Good on you for getting yourself to college. I know you were really keen on trying to make a big change and prove that you were commited to college this time around and it sounds like you really are doing the right thing so congrats on that.

Chin-up,

Love Dreamz

[pink_lucie]

im looking for somewhere to live now aswell, i know this is really selfish but i dont wanna be here when she comes back to look after her etc

[Kellie]

Not selfish honey, just honest and realistic...

[Dreamz]

Originally Posted by gossip_girl

im looking for somewhere to live now aswell, i know this is really selfish but i dont wanna be here when she comes back to look after her etc

And I doubt she would expect you to. She may need a carer and to be carer you need to have 100% of your time and attention on that person. Your family I'm sure would want you to concerntate on college and getting it right this time round. Don't worry about feeling selfish. Just as long as you let her know you still love her.

[Chy]

I'm sorry to hear about your mom gg, but maybe it will be her wake up call, who knows. Yes, take care of yourself and don't feel selfish one bit! She isn't ever going to get it until she is ready and that could be a long time to come, can't blame you one bit for not wanting to wait it out. *hugs*

I'm so glad you were able to get back into school, good for you!