What's your biggest

[BM <3]

My best struggle today is trying not to worry so much about my best friend.
Sometimes my caring consumes me.

[Chy]

My Biggest Struggle today is helping my mom who was diagnosed with cancer last month and had a mastectomy and my son (17 years old) also potentially being diagnosed with cancer two weeks ago. We will be taking him to a special cancer treatment hospital at the end of the week to get a final determination. This week I find to one of my dearest friends may have cancer as well... it's like a cancer epidemic in my life right now so it's not a struggle really, just a worry that THEY will all be okay. I'm not in their shoes so my struggle is minimal compared to theirs.

[BM <3]

Chy I am so sorry :[
I really hope your son doesn't have it too.
x

[live.laugh.love]

my biggest struggle today was being honest with myself and not purging.

[Done-With-It!]

Originally Posted by live.laugh.love

my biggest struggle today was being honest with myself and not purging.

How did you do?

[live.laugh.love]

i did okay, I could of controlled my eating more though

[Done-With-It!]

Originally Posted by live.laugh.love

i did okay, I could of controlled my eating more though

Well that is good you did okay, I bet you did good.
What could you do better on tomorrow?
Or what goals could you set for yourself? Any ideas?
You don't have to answer if you don't want to.
Just giving you some ideas...

It's a holiday here, so it's a tough day for a lot of us here.
Everyone is celebrating with picnics and food everywhere..

[BM <3]

My biggest struggle today is trying to stay positive.

I'm not doing too well..

[Done-With-It!]

Ahhh {{{Britt}}}

[2jules7]

Aww yep, big hug!!!
You can do it

[BM <3]

Thanks guys.
Today sucks. I feel like crap, I look like crap. Blah, I wanna go home and sleep.

[laxbabe8d]

hi..
i have tons of struggles on a regular basis... i dont even know where to start.
i guess i could start with not fighting with my mom as my biggest struggle for the day. me and my mom fight on a regualr basis and things have gotten so bad that she is condsidering out of home placements. im really nervouse and scared... but i just dont know how tos top fighting with her, its almost impossible.

[2jules7]

I have a slight understanding when it comes to fighting with your mom all the time. It took me until recently to realize just so much that shes had to deal with as a single mother. Like, I knew all along that it couldnt/ cant be easy to deal with each of your children having a different, nonetheless huge, problem(s) but until we had that huge argument it never really hit me as hard as it did then.
I tried not talking to her unless I had to, and that worked for a while until she got upset that I wasnt even talking to her. I started smoking weed on more of a regular basis- that didnt help any at all. I cut and everything and that only made it worse. And now here I am still smoking, cutting, and drinking almost daily and the only thing thats helping is that she has no idea that im doing it. She thinks im out in the mountains making s'mores with my friends all the time so with that and working all the damn time I guess being out of the house and not being home enough to have anything to argue about has helped our relationship.
I, in no way, encourage you try any of these things. I think just trying to do the things that make her happy - even the smallest of things work - might help. While I know that its going to piss you off to no end, cause I know it does me, it'll help her to be 'happy' and get off your back a little.
I dont know how far you want to go to try and 'fix' your relationship with her, but theres always counceling you both could try and attend. Or just sit there and talk it out with her and find out what it is each of you do that cause you to fight so much and just try your best to work on it.
I dont promise you it will be easy, but I do promise that we're always here to help you if and when you need it.
Hang in there :hugs: