Stress.

[ac2]

So like , I'm 14 & I just feel stressed out like all the time . My neck hurts & back all the time pretty much . At school I'm kinda popular & not a lot of people have problems with me . My parents are usually stressed out too ( Well to me they are ] . They're always tell me what a good life I have & how I should be thankful for everything & I am . I feel like one minute I'm happy & one minute I'm sad . And some of the problems are boys .

I just can't make up my mind for ANYTHING that has to do with them . Sometimes I'm really negative about myself too :/ & I want that to change . I just need some answers , because I know I'm not the only one out there feeling like this .

[Done-With-It!]

Just wanted to say Hi and Welcome! I'm at work right now but will read this again and reply when I get home.

Glad you found us and no your not the only one feeling like this.

[Chy]

Hello and welcome to!
Can you maybe give more detail about what stresses you? Sometimes stress is a learned behavior, especially if this is typical for your parents. Some people are not raised to know any other way so they think life should be filled with stress and worry when it's not the case?

At 14, well... it's a period of growing up that IS confusing and worrisome, it is full of mixed emotions and feelings and makes you feel crazy sometimes! So we DO understand! So if there is something specific you want to talk about that worries you we are here for you!

[Hopefloats]

WELCOME I am glad that you recognize your stress. That is SO important in finding out how to feel better.. And yes, please give us a bit more information about what that stress involves.
Nice to meet you..
Hope

I'm 16, and i was in your exact spot. My dad always told me to be thankful for everything that I have, but I felt like It wasn't enough.
Don't go out searching for more, in high school you'll find disappointment most of the time. As a junior, I know the horrible words and actions that people in high school will do, things that make you feel like a nobody; they can even do it without saying anything at all.
The 'popular' group is just one big group of friends who involve themselves with only those people. Be happy with your best friends, even with the acquaintances you have to talk to in classes. Don't give those people up.
As for your back problems, drink Kavi Stress tea, have a heating pad, and just relax. Stress takes a beating on your back. It's important to take time to just zone out.
Happy and Sad mood changes are just being a hormonal girl with a menstrual cycle, you'll look back and be like damn, why did i get so worked up over that?
Don't take for granted what you have.
Facebook Amanda Fletcher if you want to further talk about problems.