Think Big

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66.
Once you realize you have given your power away,
you can make the decision to take it back !

67.
Less effort creates more results.

68.
If you have a constant need to help other people,
notice how you must keep them helpless.

69.
Life always keeps its agreement with you.

70.
There are none so righteous as the newly converted.

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71.

Hoping and Wishing are Excuses for Not Doing.


72.
He who laughs, Lasts...

73.
If your life isn't working the way you want it to,
Notice Your lying

74.
You are the only teacher you will ever have.

75.
If you don't know what direction to take,
You haven't acknowledged where you are.

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76.
Once you accept an idea it's an idea whose time has come.

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!~!~!~THINK*AGAIN~!~!~!

77.
If you are not leaning, No One will ever let you down.

78.
If you let other people do it for you, they will do it to you.

79.
99% Responsibility doesn't work.

80.
The harder I work the luckier I get.

[Clippedwings]

This gave me a great idea! I'm going to make myself a book of insperational quotes, lyrics etc.

Can't believe I havnt thought of this before! Thanks DWI!!!

Anyway I've posted enough for tonight, off to bed I go!

[SuicidalMe]

I read through these last night. Thanks they helped alot!

[annihilate_me]

Good Stuff Done!

[*silenced*]

I really like some of these, but no offence, I think some of them are bull****.
They contradict each other!

"If you are constantly being mistreated, you're cooperating with the treatment."

This for example, that just totally undermines people being mistreated! It dosnt take in account situation or options. Sorry but, I'm even a little offended by that.
"There are no victims, only volunteers." Another one saying the same thing, if there are volunteers, then what are the perpetrators of violence and abuse doing? Put adds in the paper for a new "volunteer"?
"If you are not leaning, No one will ever let you down." So, never get close to others and let them help you and share your burdens? When you need to fall, do not lean on a friend for support every now and again? Sorry, but that's not how humans work, we need to depend on each other, yes, we get let down, but or else we'd all be totally alone.
Lastly, "Ultimately you have no choice but to feel what you are feeling." No way, if this were true I'd have killed myself a long time ago, a lot of people would have, there are ways out, this dosnt encourage change, oh just dwell in your guilt or depression, that's the only choice? No way.

Sorry, this isn't personal DWI or anything my dear, I just saw those and just felt I needed to say that, I just disagree with them.
Some of them are very good though, so cheers for posting.

[Done-With-It!]

This gave me a great idea! I'm going to make myself a book of insperational quotes, lyrics etc.

Can't believe I havnt thought of this before! Thanks DWI!!!

Anyway I've posted enough for tonight, off to bed I go!

Good, I'm glad it helped you!~

I read through these last night. Thanks they helped alot!

Your welcome~!

Good Stuff Done!

Thanks, I like them also!

I really like some of these, but no offence, I think some of them are bull****.
They contradict each other!

"[FONT="]If you are constantly being mistreated, you're cooperating with the treatment."

This for example, that just totally undermines people being mistreated! It dosnt take in account situation or options. Sorry but, I'm even a little offended by that.
[/FONT]"[FONT="]There are no victims, only volunteers." Another one saying the same thing, if there are volunteers, then what are the perpetrators of violence and abuse doing? Put adds in the paper for a new "volunteer"?
"[/FONT][FONT="]If you are not leaning, No one will ever let you down." So, never get close to others and let them help you and share your burdens? When you need to fall, do not lean on a friend for support every now and again? Sorry, but that's not how humans work, we need to depend on each other, yes, we get let down, but or else we'd all be totally alone.
Lastly, "[/FONT][FONT="]Ultimately you have no choice but to feel what you are feeling." No way, if this were true I'd have killed myself a long time ago, a lot of people would have, there are ways out, this dosnt encourage change, oh just dwell in your guilt or depression, that's the only choice? No way.

Sorry, this isn't personal DWI or anything my dear, I just saw those and just felt I needed to say that, I just disagree with them.
Some of them are very good though, so cheers for posting.
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Well I guess we all have different opinions and different views here these days don't we.

Take what you like and leave the rest as they say.

[jmna]

good stuff! thanks done-with-it! that's powerful...
for me worrying is one of that's pretty hard to deal with... any suggestions folks?

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Originally Posted by jmna

good stuff! thanks done-with-it! that's powerful...
for me worrying is one of that's pretty hard to deal with... any suggestions folks?

That's a big one for me too.

I try and remind myself that Whatever I am worrying about,
Me worrying about it, isn't going to change the situation..

or if there is a way for me to change it, then instead of worrying
it, stop worrying and just do something instead...


But I know how hard that is, I usually have to break it down into steps.

And I usually have to talk to someone, or post, about what is going on
or I end up staying in that same position for far too long.

Another thing I do, is I figure out the 'outcome' that I want and I start
focusing on that instead of the actual problem.

If you actually focus on how you want it to turn out, what outcome you want,
you will gain more confidence and lose the worry many times, or you will
start to figure out your own solutions.

For me when I keep thinking and focusing about what I'm worrying about I create all these well, What If this .... is my head..... And those What ifs..... are almost never right, or never come true.... But we will convince ourselves that they are or will, and just make that worry 100 times worse....

Any of that make sense?

[jmna]

perfect sense, thanks.

[LAStarlette]

Yea these are nothing but HELPFUL for me too, Thanks DONE!

Thanks for all you do! You help us so much!!----

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"Have patience with all things, but chiefly have patience with yourself. Do not lose courage in considering your own imperfections but instantly set about remedying them -- every day begin the task anew."

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"A pearl is a beautiful thing that is produced by an injured life. It is the tear [that results] from the injury of the oyster. The treasure of our being in this world is also produced by an injured life. If we had not been wounded, if we had not been injured, then we will not produce the pearl."

Stephan Hoeller

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"Sometimes your joy is the source of your smile, but sometimes your smile can be the source of your joy."

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"Good humor is a tonic for mind and body. It is the best antidote for anxiety and depression. It is a business asset. It attracts and keep friends. It lightens human burdens. It is the direct route to serenity and contentment."

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"Character cannot be developed in ease and quiet. Only through experience of trial and suffering can the soul be strengthened, ambition inspired, and success achieved."

Helen Keller

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"Pain insists upon being attended to. God whispers to us in our pleasures, speaks in our consciences, but shouts in our pains. It is his megaphone to rouse a deaf world."

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"The greatest degree of inner tranquility comes from the development of love and compassion. The more we care for the happiness of others, the greater is our own sense of well-being."

Tenzin Gyatso, the 14th Dalai Lama