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08-03-2007, 09:08 pm
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stressed out! ! ! !
(not sure if this goes here)
ok.. last night i decided to send a little message to all my friends on my myspace i use to help people out.. 142 friends i sent the message to.. yeah i was bored that night. well any way, i'm reading my messages from my friends and i read one about a friend was asking me if i finsihed her duct tape wristband or not.. i totaly for got about hers.. i've already finished like two and i just need to mail them out, i haven't started hers, and i haven't even started another friend who asked if i can make her one and i said yeah she sked me last month of last week... god i'm soooo feakin stressed out, i don't know what the hell i'm going to do.... why did i decided to make these for other people.. i didn't know other people would want one.. i'm not going to work on them tonight cause i will be working with a RAZOR BLADE which is a BAD thing...
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08-03-2007, 09:37 pm
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aww *hugs* and bless your heart dear. i know the feeling of stressed out and its not pretty. lol but ull find a way to get them done just breathe and work at your own pace. i know u can get through it its ok. love ya dearly and take care of yourself
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08-04-2007, 07:21 am
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Remember to take time for yourself! I know that creating or having a very stressed enviroment and being a self injuer/former self injurer is not a good mix. Tell her you've been busy, but you'll get started when you find the time.
Take Care and Stay Safe!
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08-06-2007, 12:08 pm
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Unless these people are paying you and promised them something for a fee, you owe them nothing. Just my opinion but if you are stressing yourself out like this to make other people stuff you are doing it for the wrong reasons. I would stop and ask myself what my intentions are before I would even continue. I know sometimes it can be stressful when you tell someone you will make them something, but if you are making something for someone shouldn't it be because you want to make it for them? If making the bracelets is something you enjoy and that helps you don't turn it into a stressful thing now and take that enjoyment from your life. I make things for people all the time. And a lot of times they don't work out like I wanted, or it's late, or it takes forever. That's okay, I have no deadline to give it to them unless I put one on myself. Sometimes I tell them about it, sometimes I don't. But I never let guilt become apart of it, because I do it because I enjoy it, and it is something I want to do for them, but it's not something I owe them or that they expect me to do. So putting pressure on myself in unnecessary and just takes away from it all. The last time I tried to finish something when I wasn't ready and in a hurry it turned out horrible, and I had to start all over. People will appreciate it whenever they get it, or you are giving it to the wrong people. I hope you continue to make your bracelets and it stays a fun thing for you, but remember you don't owe anything anyone. And maybe next time if you want to give them out like you did. Instead of asking everyone and having them all jump at you, you could pick out who you want to give them to and then make them, give them as a gift. Or make them first and then pick who to give them too. If I made a post in one of these forums like that, I can see how I would get bomboarded with requests, but I don't have that kind of time, money or energy. I only do it for who I really want to.. Smart thinking on your part though that night by coming here and posting and putting your blade and bracelets away. Good Job! How are you doing with it all now?
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Well I`ve seen the sunrise See the love in my Man's Eyes Feel the touch of a precious child And I know a Mother`s Love  And its funny how it`s the simple things in life that mean the most Raise you glasses for a toast To a little bit of chicken fried ---- -If You Don't Got Much Time- What are YOU Gonna Do 
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08-06-2007, 08:14 pm
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i've been doing better.. i've been things under control, i'm getting them done and i'm taking my time when i do it... the only thing i need to woory about is mailing them out..
thanks
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08-06-2007, 09:03 pm
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Quote:
 Just asking...
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You know I like my chicken fried
Well I`ve seen the sunrise See the love in my Man's Eyes Feel the touch of a precious child And I know a Mother`s Love And its funny how it`s the simple things in life that mean the most Raise you glasses for a toast To a little bit of chicken fried ---- -If You Don't Got Much Time- What are YOU Gonna Do
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08-06-2007, 10:14 pm
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i might just let things as they happen.. and i'll mail them when i mail them
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